Whenmy XW and I were in the turmoil of the separation, I used reverse-psychology and told her I didn't think she would get help. Well to spite me she went to a therapist. The therapist thought she was such a mess, the XW was instructed to come twice a week. The she was told to goto the psychiatrist and got on some meds. She was much easier to deal with, but it chjanged nothing about getting a divorce. BUT I got the satifaction of an admittance that was right. She's doing much better and I'm happy to see her getting along ok now.
If I were you, I would not expect too much. Take it day by day, move on and get out more. Hopefully communication will improve for the benfit of your children.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
