i probably took a lot longer than most people. I wanted to deal with myself and gain perspective on what had happened/how I felt about it before I got involved with anyone else. So I took a year before I really started dating, 2 years since the separation. It's strange, but also fun. I miss having a companion to share day-to-day things with but I'm enjoying the variety.
Time - it's all about time and being patient with yourself.
