I don't think I can take having her have so much power over me.
Then change your thinking. Describe this power she has over you. How did she get it? Who controls this mighty power? Who really controls you, your thoughts, actions, and feelings?
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She said she felt she was being forced into something. If she said no, I'll keep pushing. If she said maybe, I'll keep pushing, If she says yes, she's just agreeing to make me happy and doesn't believe in it. She said she'll think about it.
So stop pushing. Agree with her, "I understand how you could see that as me pushing. I will stop."
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There's no attraction
Make yourself attractive. Confident, taking care of yourself, being a great Dad, being stronger than her emotions and leading your famliy. You can handle it.
If you really listen she will tell you where the keys to her heart are.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
