I bet none of them will have the balls to answer because the true answers are...
1> NO 2> I went looking for what I already had but didn't know it until it was gone 3>Yes it made me realized that my spouse was not at fault for all of my issues 4> Yes the OM/OW was a complete jerk/a$$ 5> Nope because once i realized what i had done to my spouse i knew i really loved them not om/ow
small wonder WAWs don't feel like commenting with heavy-handed stuff like this being posted.
If you've already decided you know how everyone else feels and you've cast that into stone, then why are you here, Alex?
I'm sure some WAWs ARE happy as clams after having the balls to escape unfulfilling, emotionally bereft, or physically abusive relationships.
