in fact, I think Mr.McQueen has something there, she keeps pushing past your boundaries and you keep letting her, she had affairs, she is still mean to you, has more than just freedom, it's almost done to hurt you at this point, no sex, she's hanging around for the money, she doesn't work yet she doesn't mind going out and having fun, she tells you that you are standing in her way, blames you for everything, doesn't say good night, good bye, acknowledge your existence other than to criticize you.
She doesn't respect you. You don't sound like you have alot of self-respect for yourself just by the sounds of how she runs over you, you're not a doormat, a speed bump or a punching bag.
Women can't love their husbands if they don't respect them. The attraction has been killed a long time ago, I'm not saying it's impossible to turn this around but it's a herculean task at this point.
She is used to this routine, you've enabled her to be like this.
Do you really want to turn this around?
Are you willing to do what it takes to get some sort of reaction out of her, to flick a few attraction switches, to get her emotions jump started over you?
If you're going to reply, I can't do that because I'm not that kind of person, then it's going to be alot of wasted effort on our parts to provide this instruction.
Just remember, the kind of person you are right now is why she treats you the way she does.
If you are seriously interested in turning this around(even if this doesn't work, this would show you pretty much what your future will be with her if you continue as is)?
Everything is counter-intuitive at this point, it will be the opposite of whatever you've been doing.
