Got an email from the X yesterday, whoaaaaa!

[dday101798]

Well, if OM weren't there, I would love to say she sounds a lot like a WAW spouse who posts here who came on too strong to her her X. Of course he rejected the offers of getting together. So She wasn't sure what to do, so she backed off. Then came back here and posted and my advice was to still make the effort for get togethers for the kids, but tone down the personal desire in it.

Bottom line for either side, IT DOES mean a lot to the kids if mom and dad can put aside their personal agendas for the sake of the kids, because after all, you may be X's, but you're still mom and dad.