You seem to be doing well, but let me put a little caution here. The contact w/ the OW HAS TO STOP IMMEDIATELY. I know you want your M to work, and your H is home, but if he is still contacting her, then it is all for naught.
My suggestion: tell him this. It hurts you. He does not want to hurt you, so it is time to get a new phone number and stop all contact w/ her.
He has to know that for a time, he has to be willing to basically kiss your butt. It is your trust he has to earn, not the other way around.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
