One thing I am starting to realize is that I now will have my own issues to get over if we ever do try to R after what has gone on over the past year.
I'm with you there as well. I've thought about how it would be for me if my W came to me and said she's done with the OM and would like to work things out. There would be an initial period of happiness that one big obstacle was removed, but then what?
Since she's cheated once she may do it again. What if she falls back into the EA or a different one? How do I deal with someone who violated the sacred bonds of our marriage? How can I feel safe committing to someone who has shown that they didn't take the "forsake all others" vow seriously? I really am worried that our marriage will forever have a black mark upon it that will haunt us. And the feeling that I am someone she is just "settling" for.
All natural reactions, I guess. But we'll have to cross that bridge when we get to it.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
