Just read a quote on another thread: Don't do anything until you have to.

Don't try to read her mind on why she hasn't responded yet.

If you remember the book, try something for a while, monitor the reaction, if it's not positive then do something different. If contacting her is something different then go ahead, just keep it simple and direct.

If you're posting on others' threads, ask them to pop over to see what's going on and get their opinion.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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