TB~ you need to call your attorney now. He/she should be able to contact her attorney for some arrangement with talking to your kids. And for visitation if this goes forward. You can give up on the M all you want, but don't give up on your kids!

BIM
M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127