I have not reminded her of the past nor been the constant critic of her faults. I have tried to do more of what she asked, but it never appears to be enough. And I am not getting much reciprocation. Encouragement and support are missing. But how much more can I give and not get back? How do I get her to engage?
The best way to change her behavior is to change yours. I spend significant time reading self help books. Sounds like you are a giver and she is a taker. Might want to try backing off, work on you for awhile.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
