Today WAW returns from her sexcapades in European Capital and has courteously informed sources close to Smiley's Person that it was "glorious" and WAW Herself is "in love." The sex was even more amazing than was the sex with Signore, which had been, you will recall, the "most amazing sex" of her life up to that point.
Hey SP, I'll be honest and it's just my opinion but I don't like Mrs.SP all that much, she feels the need to continually hurt you by saying & doing these things and inflicting that type of cruel punishment to you isn't done from a position of "love".
Anyone wants to chime in and say she's hurting, great she's hurting and she would like SP to hurt as well. When does someone say enough is enough?
If a spouse hit another spouse physically and used the excuse that the other spouse was "hurting them", would we excuse it? Probably not, the general opinion would be get rid of that person, what they're doing isn't right. But when it comes to emotional,mental,verbal abuse we seem to let it slide and say "they're just doing that because they're hurt and have no other way to express it". Seriously I think I would take the physical beating at this point, this is just too damn painful.
She's testing him, she wants to break him down again, I see it, she knows what to do and she know's what bothers him so she continues doing the same thing, pushing boundaries, trying to get her way and regain that power again because she doesn't like that SP picked himself up and created a great new life after she decided he was disposable.
I believe supplicating her doesn't just come in the form of buying gifts and paying for fancy dinners, etc. Supplication is also allowing this crap behavior to go on.
There's alot to be said for walking power, turn your back on her, let her know you respect yourself enough to let go of the people that don't value you or the relationship they have with you.
And then.... there will be no more games. She can't hurt you this way when you're not around to be hurt. Even if you're strong on the outside and tell us that none of this bothers you and you expect it a million times, a small part of SP somewhere inside you has to be feeling some pain because of her actions - you wouldn't be human if this didn't affect you on some level.
She's an alien right now (not sure where she parked her ufo), someone you don't know or recognize anymore. Time for her to do the work in her life to bring her to the right place in her life and if she wants you, she'll pursue you, apologize for her crap behavior and do what's right to show she has real remorse over her actions. Time for you to let her go and realize that you aren't Mrs.SP's punching bag anymore, she can pursue shadow boxing in your absence.
I sure hope she doesn't pull this crap in front of the kids - it's disgusting at this point.
