She's watching me, like I'm watching her, so neither one of are going to get better, she's getting meaner, because I'm not letting her freer and I'm being more of a victim because I'm watching her.
So until I get all the way out of the way, she isn't going to be able to get what she needs to get thru and neither will I.
Her being free is different than my being free, I need to free myself to myself and kids.
Is that a correct thought? Let her watch me,but i don't watch her.
