I need to look at it from a MLC'ers eyes not mine when I do communicate, where I think I'm being nice, they see it as an attack, so I need to jump over the fence and look at it as if I were her how would I see it.
it's a random thought, but does it make sense until I fix myself?
You can, if it helps you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK