Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

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MC- Keep your mouth shut and LISTEN! This is very important. This is the most important SKILL you can learn during this difficult time in your life.

This is the most important person in your life. Listen to her. understand her. Feel her pain. Make it all about her by listening and understanding. Compassion and Empathy.

Forgiveness is very important also. Yes, you are hurt too, but you are her husband and need to deal with your issues without her for now. Forgiveness is the way to do this.