So did you get your proposal done? Sorry if I kept you too long. I was worried about you but as usual you are doing just fine.
As for the kids you still have them more of the time but he is trying really hard to live up to his image(snake in the grass). I would start getting all of that information together so that your L can present it.
I suppose I was lucky that ex was in such a fog he only wanted his baseball cards and some of his clothes. I got everything else...mess and all. He has expressed regret that he didn't put in more time with the kids, but really at this point they don't want to be with him more than they have to be. Divorce is an ugly thing.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory