She kept trying to carry a conversation about furniture and I chose not to answer… she said please answer me (more than once) she then said.. I am sure to get a rise out of me… “how are we going to co parent our girls 50 / 50 when you are being like this”
In Divorce Remedy I believe there's a section talking about whether what you are doing is helping you become closer to your spouse.
I guess my question would be was the silent treatment something that will help you get closer to your spouse?
I know it's tough. I had a counseling session this morning and we went through a recent phone call with my W and the counselor pointed out how I missed several opportunities to really listen to her, empathize with her situation. Every interaction is a chance to show her you are growing, she reminded me.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
