Maybe it sounds crazy but I am learning so much from this situation...I'm kinda grateful that H stood up for his unhappiness and dropped the bomb. My life will never be the same after this...and that is a good thing.
I sometimes feel that way as well -- if we didn't separate I would never have figured out the things I was doing wrong and needed to improve -- but I struggle with the fact my W might never give me the chance to put my new skills into effect with her.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
