Continue not answering all of her calls. She'll get angry, but so what?
Last night she did call me and it was kind of late. I didn't pick up right away as i was in the bathroom. I came out and saw she called and had called her back. Right away she starts off by saying how come I never answer my phone anymore? I told her that I have been busy. She then said she had called me 3 or 4 times in a row and I picked up and hung up on her yesterday. I never even got a call from her at all and just told her that. I then asked her what she wanted. She said she has a manditory meeting friday morning and could not take the kids till Sunday. I said that's fine. It got silent for a good minute and she said "well if you need any of there stuff call me and let me know ok." I just responded "ok bye."
Her tone in her voice is different now. Its not the usual how do you describe it, the FU! atitude tone. Its more of a scared needy tone now.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09