Success is not defined as 'marriage busted'. Alot of people here can say 'marriage busted' but really? Did they do the work to improve themselves? Some of those stories you feel are going to be back here in a few year with the spouse going, "What went wrong?"

Trapt, you are a success, you aren't the same kid that came here, now you are good for yourself and anyone else lucky...yes lucky enough to be a part of your life.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet