Originally Posted By: closertofour
How long do you wait for something to happen?


Only you can decide. Your fear and distrust are completely valid and understandable.

If you're done, then you're done and you can proceed with paperwork.

If you're not done and you want to explore it with her, then go on some dates. One of two things will happen: either you'll draw closer and closer together and the two of you will find that the other people you're dating have less and less allure, or dating will make you realize that yes, it's time to stick a fork in it.

I can't make the decision for you - but in your first post it sounds like you're not done.

Last edited by Dia; 10/06/09 04:05 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

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