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Only couple hours because, the kids get bored or ask for something like a gift or say something mean to me or about they're mom and i'm not going to reward the behavior.


So you take them back home? Really?

My D's get bored, ask for stuff and say mean things. They're kids (in my case teenagers)! Is it my H's fault my kids do this? No, it isn't. This is where you parent. Love and Logic might help you there.

I get that it's supposed to be all about her, but she has the kids. Time for you to take them more IMO, whether they like it or not. SHOW them your intent to be in their live and be a good Dad.