Thanks Antlers,

Those have been my focus, these are the things I know.

- My d8 comes first, but in order for me to focus on her, I need to be as sound as I can be both Financially and emotionally.
- I can not, and will not, stay in the same house as WAW while she dates other men.
- I will not destroy myself financially so she may do so either, or allow her to walk away with only me holding the financial mess.

- I have been compassionate to my W, apologized for my transgressions in the R many times, made good with myself over them, and will continue to change for me to be a better man.


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."