Those have been my focus, these are the things I know.
- My d8 comes first, but in order for me to focus on her, I need to be as sound as I can be both Financially and emotionally. - I can not, and will not, stay in the same house as WAW while she dates other men. - I will not destroy myself financially so she may do so either, or allow her to walk away with only me holding the financial mess.
- I have been compassionate to my W, apologized for my transgressions in the R many times, made good with myself over them, and will continue to change for me to be a better man.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."