"The people here who have success are the ones who see the good in the situation."
I can tell you from a woman's perspective anyway, that when my StBX starting running his negative script of how he viewd me words & actions... it pushed me so far away.
When it was clear he was giving me the benefit of the doubt & at least attempting to see my actions & words in a 'good' light, it was like a magnet drawing me to him.
People want to be judged on their intentions, sadly we judge on actions. But just as people view words to have different interpretations, different people do the same action with very different intentions.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
