Originally Posted By: are you kidding
What book would someone recommend on control issues and good communication?


Then I'd have the ability to work on myself



This is what I'm talking about...

Still looking for a shortcut on this thing.....

I COULD recomend some things, but then who has actually done any work.

Try Googling controlling behavior, and see if it applies to you ...

But, you aren't going to change unless you realize there is a problem to begin with.

I'm not gonna bail on you, but it is frustrating seeing you do the same things over and over when there are so many good, no , great people trying to help and you don't listen.

AYK, you are the only person that can do the work for you

Maybe it is time to stop being the victim.....