Last night W, who is still in Arizona, called daycare provider, also a mutual friend of ours, to ask how the girls were doing. She told her that she called her to not upset the girls. If that was her concern, why wouldn't she just call me at work or after the girls go to bed? WTH is going on?
Maybe she wanted a third party perspective or a woman's perspective on how the kids are doing. Maybe she didn't want to bother you with a mundane call about the kids.
If you really want to know then ask. If not let it go. Does it really matter? One quote here that helped me was this, "The people here who have success are the ones who see the good in the situation."
It does come across as needy and controlling. Don't make decisions based on emotions. A few facts ruin a lot of arguments.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
