And I too am assuming OM contact. It sucks. I know that I shouldn't assume, but what other reasonable reason could be for this erratic behavior? I wish I could explain it some other way, but I can't. I will go with the NC. Thanks again for the 2x4's.
Now what should I do with these to orchestra tickets I have for her birthday (Saturday). I asked if she wanted to go out that night and she did say yes. I guess I will play it by ear, but I need to line up a babysitter for that night soon.