Hey Guys, Everyone has their character flaws and i have to admit that i have been much nicer than i should have been. But today, although I may have been stepped on a little, there is a certain peace that I carry around and my daughter is the beneficiary of it. I am not saying to be a doormat but to pick your battles. Personally, I don't think it is worth it to get worked up over our kid's extracuricular activities. Kerry, if your daughter wants something, she will need to learn to ask for it and not rely on her daddy to take care of it. I know, that is what we do. I don't think we do our daughters any favours by helping them out. I have to hold back constantly....