OK, after pondering it for a day, not sure I'm ready to push the D and get this over with quite yet. I've been thinking about why my W hasn't responded in any way to the paperwork. My guess is now that she sees there could be financial ramifications for her (re: splitting the negative equity), what reason does she have to bring it up or move forward with the D? Sometimes the dynamics of the sitch need to change, so what if I stir the pot a bit...a simple email asking if she had a chance to look it over?







Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done