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Well I think it may be time to move in here…Not D yet but it looks like it’s about a month away.

Brief history on the past few months…June W told me she was sure she wanted D…June 30 we met to go over as much of a settlement as we could, worked everything out nicely except the money part, doing mediation for that. July 3rd she starts dating…Aug first I do also…

Just last week she found out I was dating has been very cold to me since…This past Thursday
W: Are you going to D5 cheerleading
Me: No
W: (long pause)Why
Me: going out of town
W: (longer pause) Where?
Me: Las Vegas
W: Why for work?
Me: No, I don’t think I want to talk about this anymore…I need to go. Bye
W: Bye
She hasn’t spoke two words to me since…Like it’s ok for her to date but not me?

Here’s my bigger problem, I think this R may be going faster than I want. She’s great, but I found out about two weeks ago her family is loaded, very intimidating, like more money than everyone I’ve ever know put together…Couldn’t meet nicer people but intimidating.
Anyway that’s where I am today…Bar’s open I only serve Beer, Wine and Tequila… grin


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."



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Pitcher o'Lite laugh

Meh, take the dating in stride at a nice slow pace.

The jealous X, hehe, get used to it, it's not going to get any better. Although she may be legitamitely upset about you not attending you DD's event.


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I guess cyber beer is good, since you are cutting back on the real stuff... wink

I don't think she was upset at all about me not going that's like the first thing I've missed in two years...Her on the other hand, different story.


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O'dog's on the wagon but I'll pull up a chair if you don't mind.


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Originally Posted By: orangedog
O'dog's on the wagon but I'll pull up a chair if you don't mind.


O'douls works. wink


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
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Pull up a chair O'dog...anyone with Dog in their screen name is more than welcome...

dday O'douls is not a bad substitute, sort of like a nicotine patch.


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
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D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."



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LOL, yeah, but when everyone else is sud'n up, it does fool the mind a bit.


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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WOW...Just got the following email from W

You were right we were at cub scouts when you called. It was late by the time we got back and I figured you were probably busy with your new friend.

W

Just WOW...


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
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Hehe, you know what they say about karma? laugh


Me 35/XW 33
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M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
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No kidding...up until she "found out" things were fine with us talked, laughed, joked now I get the cold shoulder. Her loss not mine, this is what she chose.


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
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D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."



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