Question...if your wife filed for divorce in January of this year, what's happened legally since then? That was 9 months ago!
ps - good luck in your situation.
In Pa, the process can take up to 2 years, if both parties do not agree. This varies by state, but it sounds like most states it is under 1 year.
Typically during the process, if there are children involved, there is a custody agreement, child support agreement, spousal support agreement and then the equity distribution.
I see your situation has headed down this path as well. It's unfortunate, but keep you head held high and know that you have fought to the bitter end.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13