In response to myself we've been here before, but I think that I am a little better at this now. As GIMA mentioned, I need to keep my new GAL attitude if I have any hopes of this sticking. If W goes from 2% me in her life to 100% me all will be lost.

Also, I spent a lot of yesterday monitoring how much I was around W. After the previous day which was nearly constant affection and interaction, I was sure to give her plenty of room and waited for her to come to me. I have plans after work today so that whould help too.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.