One example occurred a few weeks ago. She dropped off my son late. I asked her why she did not call and let me know that she was going to keep him later than the agree upon time.
Instead of talking about it, she began to laugh and giggle like a teenager. I asked her why she was laughing and she didn't give a reason. But it was obvious to me. It was because I got upset.
Another example happened a month ago. She came by to drop him off again. This time, he did not have his seat belt on when he arrived. He's only 3, so he does not know how to unbuckle his seat belt.
I looked at her and she began to smirk. I held myself back and did not say a word. But, I knew what she trying to do. She wanted a reaction out of me. I didn't let it happen.
Examples like these drive me crazy.
On the other side, she has done things to try to flirt with me. On a few occassions, my son has come back smelling like her shampoo and body wash. His clothes would come back smelling like her perfume.
Plus, she would let me playfully touch her a couple of times. Also, she would try to find ways for me to call her. This reminded me of a high school mind game.
Now, I have become stronger and have not let her cake eat. I refuse to let her play with my emotions or try to let her keep me around emotionally. The OM is now responsible for her physical and emotional needs. I will just worry about me and our S.
