How's it going? Hey = I got a recommendation for a comedic novel - still interested?
I'm still up for the games and the book. I had an extended weekend withour access to a real computer. I was using my phone for a couple of posts, but it was kind of a pain.
How's it going? I really don't know. From the outside, I'd say it's going great. After I told W Saturday night that I was preparing for my new life without her, we spent Sunday together and she was very affectionate. We ML multiple times at her direction (I kissed her neck while hugging, so I may have primed the pump, but I didn't initiate the ML).
She slept in with my Sunday night. I was off work yesterday and spent most of it working on household projects in the garage. She came out and initiated conversations with me regularly throughout the day. It was clear that she wanted to spend time with me, but felt funny about being up front about it. She mentioned on a number of occasions on how I must hate her so it became a parody. I told her "I hate you" in the tone of ILY. She responded back "I hate you too" in a very loving manner. Weird yes, but it worked at the time.
She was like the old her yesterday. She initiated hugs and even feined jealousy when a scantily clad woman in a TV show caught my attention. We watched TV together Sunday and Monday nights like we used to. I haven't heard about the GF in a couple days (a record for the past couple of years).
W went to bed in "her" room last night, but came knocking on my door about an hour later. We spent the night curled up together (no LMing, which was believe it or not nice). She even pulled me in for a hug before I left this morning.
I'd say it's going great, from the outside looking in. The problem is that we've been here before and it's gone away. She hasn't said she's staying either. The way she's been she could just see this as "nice" but still feel the need to go.
I'll get around to checking in on everyone's sitch's now that I am back to a computer.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
