Totally agree. A book may be just the thing ... as you say, think it through. Otherwise, just a card, chosen carefully for it's wording.

I know that you will get what is just right ... or decide to get nothing at all.

I have the same dilemma to fix come Australia Day!

WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09