I'm really happy for you and for your kids. And yes, she does not understand your feelings. FOr now. This too shall pass. Stay positive - you got the best answer you could have from the courts and she can just go have a tantrum about it - but it won't change. She has her own reasons for wanting more custody and she may be hurting too - not a good position for her to see things through your eyes. Give her space to process her feelings on her own and see if she can't come around to seeing from another perspective later down the line. Hang in there!
