I'll be thinking of you tomorrow - stay calm and focused.
I agree that spewing is better than indifference, however, I've been a punching bag for months and it really hurts. Maybe the C can help him stay sane and play fair with you.
also, DB suggests you do what works, avoid what doesn't. This is individual for each couple. If initiating contact and keeping it open helps him calm down. DO IT> IT'S A SIMPLE THING TO SAVE YOUR OWN SANITY!
