She's baiting me isn't she?I try to be the nice, the hero and she turns that and everything else against me,even though i don't defend or argue, just my response back is an argument.
Dang it ayk, be patient and shut up!!!!Admitting what you know, is one thing, now work on it and have a life.
By the way I know she's watching me, her whole car deal,which her new car got towed in to the shop today...she wouldn't let me drop off a car..and she said it's my fault, I could've died when son gave me mail today and it was insurance for her new car without her name on it, just my name! I just said to myself, ahhhhhh s''t.
she new where I parked my car at the game, my parents said she kept watching me on the sidelines, she even said yesterday quit speeding down the st it's not attractive, today she emailed me yep your changing,but your controlling and embelishing isn't. and called me a liar. I didn't lie, but i did say hey if I got something wrong tell me and I'll correct it. She noticed new clothes and she is using my being nice and wanting to do the right thing against me. I keep thinking she's looking for security she isn't and I tell myself that and I get sucked into it.
I probably shouldn't have given her what I gave those cnslrs, but I wanted her to know I wasn't being mean.
I've realized lines have been drawn, the neighbor told her what I said, she damn near quoted it verbatim. I admitted my mistake, all of them to her today and I told the truth, misguided attempt to save something.
She said quit controlling me and do not tell me what to do.
I responded back with...
"you are in control and tell me when I say something controlling to you and I'll stop."
