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Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
aliveandkicking #1850499 10/05/09 05:46 PM
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[quote=aliveandkicking]I know from reading on here and from watching my friends that the paper divorce means little and the emotional divorce is the hardest part. [/quote
Is that equally true for men and women?? I have a suspicion that men deal with paper (logic) then deal with emotion.

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Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
RedSoxFan #1850589 10/05/09 07:44 PM
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It may very well be different for men than for women however, there are plenty of couples where even post divorce, one or both parties are emotionally invested. I think it can manifest in different ways...anger, pursuit, resentment, sexual relationships...seems both men and women hang on in some way.

Not sure how it break down statistically.
Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
aliveandkicking #1850755 10/06/09 12:07 AM
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Men are more logic based? hmmm....


DEFINE GENDER {MAN, WOMAN}

If GENDER = MAN then
PROCESS PAPERWORK
PROCESS EMOTION
on CONFUSED then EXIT>

"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
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LOL!!!

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

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Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
orangedog #1850791 10/06/09 01:47 AM
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Now that's funny. I need a little help with some php when you have a minute o'dog

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Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
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Dating sucks. I'm going to be a spinster.
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Dating sucks. I'm going to be a spinster.


Sorry to hear. What happened?

1st
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Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
Dudess #1850875 10/06/09 05:11 AM
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That doesn't sound good. Sorry it didn't go well.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
pearlharbr #1850876 10/06/09 05:16 AM
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Sorry A&K. At least you got out there. O'dog hasn't wanted to try yet.



RedSox, I'll help you with that PHP anytime. Just say the word.

"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Re: I need help, again, but more than ever.
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Well, it was awesome...stupid and young and fun and I know 100% that he had a great time...but no text or call today. That is not how I roll. Makin' out and having a great time till ridiculous hours...I want some kind of check-in, feedback, anything.

He is too in the scene anyway but talented, intelligent, politically aligned...not exactly a stable choice given his profession and age (and love of a should be legal substance). But, I am attracted to the creative types.

I just don't like putting myself out there. I am such a straight up person and this is game-town.
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