Divorced and want her back

[RonD]

Little update on my situation. Went to my son's soccer game today; sat next to my ex and we shared babysitting the grandson and though I just wanted to cry and tell her how much I love her I kept a smile and let her set the tone. It's homecoming week so we have another soccer game Wednesday, she wants to sit with me at the big football game Thursday and Friday I'm meeting her for lunch to get some nice clothes for my son (he's growing like a weed) for the dance Friday night. Thursday night I start therapy and she said she'd like to know how it goes and to keep her updated, but I think I'll let her lead on that also. And, she asked me to come up to her place for Halloween and take our grandson on the rounds while she hands out candy. Maybe we're learning to be friends again. I think I'll just stick by my plan and see where it leads us. And I have to agree with Stitch that time apart is essentiial so I can concentrate on working through my issues. The hardest thing right now for me seems to be a lack of patience and courage but I'll need plenty of both.

Ron