Just got off the phone w/ STBXH. Expressed my feelings to him about anger, resentment, wanting to save our marriage. Sorrow for our marriage failing. Told him that I just needed to tell him this and that I don't think I can be friends with him anymore.
Wow. I feel like I just got slammed with a frying pan again.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF