Mine went to bed the other night around 7ish. I thought he was probably going to get in bed and read, but soon after I heard him snoring loudly.
The mental stress is hard on us also. It's like waking up everyday and staring in your own scary movie. I think it's the emotional abuse also. The analyzing alone wears me out. And I know it makes no sense to do that. My friend said I should pray for GOD to give me blinders.