Strangers treat me better than my own husband. I deserve to have someone actually care about what I have to say, damn it! Just pretend that you're listening at least. He's so fricken rude! Someone please remind me why I am doing this again. Because right now, I'm tired of his sh!t and am feeling done.
I have felt and sometime feel this exact same way. As a matter of fact, I think i actually told him something along these lines when I slipped once early on. Just so you know, it didnt go over very well.
Sounds to me like you had a little too much contact as well. Getting into an R talk also didnt help. I dont think you needed to or should have offered him an explaination as to why you didnt want to ML. A simple no, would have possibly been better and avoided the R talk. No, and then busy yourself with something else.
