Lots and lots of stuff going on and you've been so busy!
Whenever the world is spinning from all the legalese, talk to your lawyer. It's their job to know what is and isn't in your best interest. What is your lawyer's take on your spouse pushing through the dissolution before the custody and financials have been determined?
This is an incredibly confusing time. Your spouse no longer has your best interests at heart, only his. He's not one to sit with in court, take direction from, especially when it comes to leaving when the court is in recess. Leaving makes both of you lose credibility. You leave when your attorney says "Let's go."
Sit as far away from your spouse as you can in court. He's not doing you any favors. Route all his questions, suggestions directly to your attorney. He's doing so many wacky things it's making your head spin. Getting you off kilter works best for him.
The term 'Crazy like a fox' comes to mind about your spouse. If he's great in business, successful negotiating is second nature. He is not your friend. He is using his skills against you.
Your lawyer has your back. Let him/her deal with your spouse.
