A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[brownidmom]

I'm sure that was the right thing to do, Dia. It is best to leave them to their own devices in the middle of something as big as that moment. It doesn't pay to overthink things. AND it never ceases to amaze me how a M and a W can see or experience the same thing so differently.

About 10 years ago when I had to go away for 2 weeks for job training, my H came to visit over the weekend. Had a great weekend, hot sex a number of times. When he left to go home on Sunday night, my love tank was full! H called me from the lobby to ask me if I wanted a copy of his parking receipt or something and I told him no. Come to find out, H was looking for a reason to come back for one last hug or kiss or roll in the hay and my saying no to the receipt seemed like a rejection to him, like I wanted him to go. No way, I was tired and pulled out the ironing board to get ready for the next day and wait on him to call me that he was safely home.

Sorry to hijack, Dia. THose things still stir up such confusion for me. If I wanted to go back, I would just have gone back!

BIM