Well I "broke up" with my MC today! Actually she was pretty cool about it and agreed I was doing very good emotionally - and that it takes two to work on a marriage. I'll miss her but know that this is the right step to take.
No drastic next steps planned - just going to keep focusing on my kids and myself. And pick up the accessories I need for the very sexy costume I got from Fredrick's of Hollywood for the annual Halloween party we go to. (Need to add a few things to make it safe for non-bedroom-wear!) Let H look at that cake behind the glass...cause he's not going to be eating any!