Hey Oz, Just saw your post over on Rabbit's thread and wanted to say Hi! Been missing you around but considered that all was well at the homestead and so you didn't need to be here!! I hope that is the case, as much as the internet not having been connected?
How's it going?? (((Oz)))
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
The internet not being at home is the main reason I haven't been around, Until it is connected I am relying on work's net. All is very very well at home, but I still love to come here and see what is happening and catch up on everyone and where they are at.
H went away Thursday night for his weekend. What we had decided to do, which I have seen mentioned somewhere else on this site was for me to go to a bar on Saturday night before the "red" birthday party, all dressed hot to trot and for H to arrive a bit after and "pick me up" bit of silly role playing. H was not going to come home until I had left that way he hadn't seen me dressed.
It was such fun. Me with sexy loose curls, black dress, fitted in all the important spots, girls out and red high heels, exactly the look I know H likes on me.
There was heaps of flirting between us acting and talking like we had never met, him trying to pick me up, me playing hard to get. The best fun we have had in ages. We kept up the act between us at the party (no one else knew), I had "asked him to go the party with me" whilst we were at the bar and then I asked him back to "my" place.
The goals that have been met now include:
H has said he loves me H has called me by my name and pet name H cannot keep his hands off me now H looks at me with love in his eyes H smiles at me constantly
We plan to go away for a weekend to Qld in the next couple of weeks when he has a Saturday off work.
I mentioned a little while ago that I was going to do some swing dancing lessons, at that point was enrolled by myself, friends all had their H's to go with. Guess what, H found out about the dancing at the red party the other night from one of our friends.
H is not and never has been interested in dancing, but he said to me Saturday night, if you would like to do it I will give it a go.
Huge 180 for him (maybe he has been reading this site) who knows.
Dancing lesson no. 1 last night, it was such fun, H actually loved it and we did really well together. Now he is digging out all the CD's that we can dance to to practice. Can't wait for next week's lesson now.
H has said he loves me H has called me by my name and pet name H cannot keep his hands off me now H looks at me with love in his eyes H smiles at me constantly
Wow. Just..... wow.
The role-playing stuff is fun. Just between you and me (and a bajillion strangers on the internet) H and I have a good time with "The Sultan and his New Harem Girl".
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
We never used to do that kind of thing, and I can honestly say we have been missing out big time.
It has made such a difference, of course, you don't feel like doing that all the time, but it adds a sense of fun and adventure.
We certainly won't be giving up doing that.
H has just emailed me and asked me out to dinner Friday night and asked if I would like to stay in town. Wow from me.
H hasn't emailed or txt'd me so much in I don't know how long. It is an amazing turn around.
The one thing I have to be very conscious of though is that communication must now always be open, honest and up front and we can't at any stage, slip back into old habits.
Yes, it's really like maintaining a healthy weight. The minute you see even 5 lbs creep back on, you have to immediately go back to healthier patterns. If you let it backslide, it WILL backslide and you'll be right back where you started.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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