Message from H this morning: "This week is rather hectic for me. Maybe the weekend. What do you want to discuss?"

The email must have been sent whilst he was at the airport. The time stamp fits in perfectly with his scheduled flight back. I kind of quite like that as it means that he was keen to get a response to me as soon as he was away from ow. If he was really aggro with me, surely he would have waited until he got back?? Perhaps I am just seeking for comfort in that and I know that I should be reading nothing in to this action. Just one dew drop helps when you have been in the desert for so long, eh?!

Is he DB'ing me?? Let's not forget that I asked him last time 'what do you want to discuss' - same technique!

Now, what do I answer. Is this my time to 'meet for coffee' - would be pushing it for anything more, I reckon. Do I change things completely around and say that I will go to him, rather than him come to the house?? I always feel that there's a bad vibe here after he exits in a storm. A new event is that this is the first time he has suggested a weekend meeting ... normally his weekends are sacrisanct - but only because of the tramp. Do we meet half way or at a 'location' ... can think of a nice park where it would be good to meet and have coffee 'picnic-style'. Mmmm, I'm liking that thought but don't know if he's ready for it yet.


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09