kunstler:

Hi. Sorry your post hasn't generated any discussion yet. Sometimes situations are sort of baffling and people don't know what to say.

You gave a quote from your partner:
"Don't call it making love. It's f*cking."

Is she referring to her past experiences only? Or is she also referring to her current situation with you?

I hope it's the former (her past, not you). If she is also referring to her situation with you ... wow. That's a body blow. Potentially lethal. I'm hoping I'm misunderstanding.

I'm not going to say anything else until you give some clarification on that.



me: 50
w (waw): 45
daughter: 9
m: 16
t: 19
bomb: 9/26/08
status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R

my story