Hi. Sorry your post hasn't generated any discussion yet. Sometimes situations are sort of baffling and people don't know what to say.
You gave a quote from your partner: "Don't call it making love. It's f*cking."
Is she referring to her past experiences only? Or is she also referring to her current situation with you?
I hope it's the former (her past, not you). If she is also referring to her situation with you ... wow. That's a body blow. Potentially lethal. I'm hoping I'm misunderstanding.
I'm not going to say anything else until you give some clarification on that.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R