Learn to do for you....do what you need to do to become content and whole w/yourself. If you've made mistakes in the marriage, take a long, hard look at them and work on them. This is the time that the man upstairs has set aside for you to have your own journey and rediscover the person you once were.
If divorcing your wife is the only way to protect your assets and finances, by all means...but, think long and hard about what you are planning to do. However, if you are divorcing your wife in the hope's of snapping her out of her funk...you can forget that....they will take the road of least resistance and leave us in the dust.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
